Unleash Her Wild Side - Dating advice for men, woman. Dating advice for teens and boys

There are a lot of reasons why it is in your best interest to unleash the passionate and erotic wild side of your mate. The first and foremost is obviously that you both get hotter sex. You might have seen this side of her before and it faded, or perhaps you have no idea what she is capable of. Either way, here you’ll find some ways to help get her groove on.

Buy her a costume

The bottom line with this trick is that if you buy her a costume, she is obliged to put it on at least once and saunter around like a goddess. If you choose well, you may get more mileage out of it on special occasions. Do some discreet research and then go shopping. Beware of scrimping; those $30 outfits on the internet may look hot on the perfectly proportioned lingerie model, but "one size fits all" actually means "this will probably look stupid on your girlfriend." Check her lingerie tags for top and bottom sizes, and if she chops them off, ask someone reliable what they think. If it is more of a small, medium or large issue, it’s a bit easier -- check her clothing tags.

Some popular outfits include the good old risqué clichés: nurses, maids, corsets, and dominatrix styles. Choose something that is stylish, sexy, well-crafted, and is going to fit her properly, not accentuating areas she would rather hide. Stockings, suspenders and corsets all have good coverage and still have great sex appeal.

Challenge her with erotic dares

Is she a sucker for a challenge? Get her competitive streak working for you by suggesting erotic dares, such as stripping, dancing or being a shameless exhibitionist.

The thrill of breaking her own boundaries will excite her and leave you both breathless. It’s moments like these that stick in your mind and provide great fantasy fodder for later, plus a few good laughs at your audacity. Sexual antics in a public place or games at home can be excellent fun and really spice up your sex life.

Tease her over a prolonged period

The problem with men and women is that men generally want far more sex than women, so a woman can safely assume that whenever she wants it, he will be keen. This means that it is often the men who initiate sex simply because women don’t get a chance to or because they know that they don’t have to because you will. To reverse this on her, withhold sex for a bit and tease her mercilessly. Get her sexual mind active again, and she’ll be all over you like a rash in no time.

There’s nothing like a bit of carefully plotted reverse psychology to get her all hot and bothered. Tease her with touches (but stop there), sexy love letters or e-mails, erotic gifts, and of course, sensual words in her ear telling her what you would like to do to her. You will need to exercise some self-control here, but it will be worth it. Try a period of a week, and be crafty in your seduction.

Take command

Be bold, not demanding. Taking the initiative a step further, you can almost dare her to match you, say, in a public place -- tit for tat, so to speak. Takingdirty commands is a turn-on simply because it can come out of the blue and be spontaneous. She might find she quite likes it and command you back.

One thing leads to another and before you know it, she’s commanding you all over the place. And you love it because she’s doing the deed and telling you what she wants.

Bring a camera

Cameras are always risky business but can be a great deal of fun (not to mention the future supply of fantasy materials they provide). Trust is essential. It has to be clear that nothing will happen to the photographs or videos -- they’re strictly for personal use only (unless otherwise agreed, of course).

Watching the action through a digital screen while you’re doing it is fun because you get vantage points you didn’t have before, especially of her. She can’t see what you can; in fact, at any given moment she can’t see much unless she folds over. Giving her a real taste of what she looks like from behind, or even while she is on top, can be very erotic and dare I say, interesting.

get her to let loose

Women can be very shy about behaving in a lascivious manner. She might feel like a fraud or feel silly. Luckily, these things can be overcome reasonably easily. Being a sex goddess doesn’t come naturally to many women, for whatever reason. The key to charging her with electric sexuality is to make her feel very comfortable, desired and safe. Don’t ever laugh at her attempts because you can guarantee it will be her last if you do. Genuinely compliment her on what she does well, and even if it means overexaggerating at first, don’t let there be a gap where she can think “Am I doing this right?” because you can bet that if she has the time of think that, she’ll be thinking it.

Getting women to shed her inhibitions and get right into the filth can be hard, but it can also be incredibly easy; with the right situation anything is possible. On some occasions, make her feel comfortable so she can open up, and at others, surprise her with something raunchy and you may be pleasantly shocked at the results, as may she. Be very aware of boundaries -- hers and your own -- at all times, and if things become uncomfortable for either of you, stop. Make chatting about what you both like and want out of your sex life a regular thing and magic shall unfold. Just remember that if things aren’t going your way, couples who communicate well have more and better sex.


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