How to talk to her? Dating advice for men, teens and guys
Dating Q&A
What should I do if I’m already seeing a woman for a while, and I really want to create a special evening?
OK, as you know I don't like to venture into the "relationship" realm, but I will make a comment here.
If you have been seeing a woman for awhile, and you REALLY want to blow her mind, DO SEVERAL THINGS THAT SHE LIKES ALL IN ONE DAY OR EVENING.
Take her to her favorite restaurant, give her a gift of her favorite flowers, wear the clothes that you know she likes, rub her shoulders, and, um... give her some good lovin'.
Romance is wonderful, as long as you don't overdo it and come across as a WUSSY.
Focus all of the things that she likes into one small window, and good things will come of it.
Then don't do them again for awhile... AT ALL.
She'll talk about that night forever, and she'll always be wondering when the next one will come.
Won’t a woman get upset if I tease her, “bust her balls,” and use your Cocky & Funny technique?
Yes, in the real world, sometimes a woman will get upset because you're indifferent, or because you make fun and bust on her... it happens.
It's so hard for men to see that some women just aren't going to be right for them, and that some women aren't fun or interesting.
Just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean that she's also sweet, kind, loving, stable, etc.
Men tend to instantly assume that attractive women are more honest, more friendly, more trustworthy, etc., JUST BECAUSE THEY'RE ATTRACTIVE.
And it just isn't so. You will have to strike your own personal balance in regards to how you act toward women, and you'll have to learn for yourself which signs to watch out for.
I personally have no time for a woman who can't deal with a little teasing or who gets upset because she's not the center of attention and being courted like a princess.
I laugh if a woman gets upset by one of my jokes... IT'S VERY FUNNY! I just say "lighten up, a bad attitude isn't attractive."
If you had to boil down how to get a woman to like you in just a couple of paragraphs, what would you say?
The way to make a woman like you is to:
1- Not act like all the other average guys out there.
2- Make her laugh.
3- Be unpredictable, challenging and mysterious.
What's the secret behind communicating with a woman properly?
Of course there are more ingredients, but these are a start.
Don't act nervous or uncomfortable. Treat her like you've known her all your life... almost like she's your bratty little sister.
Tease her and make her laugh. Have fun.
Don't be PREDICTABLE. Do things that surprise her. Say things that keep her wanting to hear more. Tell interesting stories and don't answer her questions directly... instead, make her work for the answers.
What should I do if I’m already seeing a woman for a while, and I really want to create a special evening?
OK, as you know I don't like to venture into the "relationship" realm, but I will make a comment here.
If you have been seeing a woman for awhile, and you REALLY want to blow her mind, DO SEVERAL THINGS THAT SHE LIKES ALL IN ONE DAY OR EVENING.
Take her to her favorite restaurant, give her a gift of her favorite flowers, wear the clothes that you know she likes, rub her shoulders, and, um... give her some good lovin'.
Romance is wonderful, as long as you don't overdo it and come across as a WUSSY.
Focus all of the things that she likes into one small window, and good things will come of it.
Then don't do them again for awhile... AT ALL.
She'll talk about that night forever, and she'll always be wondering when the next one will come.
Won’t a woman get upset if I tease her, “bust her balls,” and use your Cocky & Funny technique?
Yes, in the real world, sometimes a woman will get upset because you're indifferent, or because you make fun and bust on her... it happens.
It's so hard for men to see that some women just aren't going to be right for them, and that some women aren't fun or interesting.
Just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean that she's also sweet, kind, loving, stable, etc.
Men tend to instantly assume that attractive women are more honest, more friendly, more trustworthy, etc., JUST BECAUSE THEY'RE ATTRACTIVE.
And it just isn't so. You will have to strike your own personal balance in regards to how you act toward women, and you'll have to learn for yourself which signs to watch out for.
I personally have no time for a woman who can't deal with a little teasing or who gets upset because she's not the center of attention and being courted like a princess.
I laugh if a woman gets upset by one of my jokes... IT'S VERY FUNNY! I just say "lighten up, a bad attitude isn't attractive."
If you had to boil down how to get a woman to like you in just a couple of paragraphs, what would you say?
The way to make a woman like you is to:
1- Not act like all the other average guys out there.
2- Make her laugh.
3- Be unpredictable, challenging and mysterious.
What's the secret behind communicating with a woman properly?
Of course there are more ingredients, but these are a start.
Don't act nervous or uncomfortable. Treat her like you've known her all your life... almost like she's your bratty little sister.
Tease her and make her laugh. Have fun.
Don't be PREDICTABLE. Do things that surprise her. Say things that keep her wanting to hear more. Tell interesting stories and don't answer her questions directly... instead, make her work for the answers.
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