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Sunday, July 22, 2007

10: Ways To Meet A New Woman Tonight - Dating advices and dating tips.

Meeting a new woman can be a daunting task. Most guys have NO CLUE how to do it, so they crash and burn, again and again. If you want to meet a new woman without running the risk of getting shot down you need a solid game plan. Use these 10 tips to start talking to women and getting numbers and dates in no time.

Number 10

Find a target-rich environment

It’s important that you find those special places that are PACKED with attractive women, places where it's natural to start talking to them and where there's less COMPETITION and distraction from other guys. Try the yoga class at your local gym… the Starbucks across from the tanning salon… the weekend art show, etc. If you’re willing to do a little research, you’ll discover that there are literally TONS of great places to meet women in your area that most men have NO IDEA even exist…

Number 9

Play it cool

When you see a woman you want to meet, pay attention to the situation and approach her when she's not likely to feel "rudely interrupted." It’s also a MUST that you eliminate nervous ticks, stilted body language, fast movements, stuttering, and any other signs that show you're uncomfortable. And, of course, look her straight in the eyes. When you do, you'll come across as the type of cool and confident guy she'd LOVE to give her number to.

Number 8

Practice your approach

It's important to mentally rehearse your first conversations with women. Plan what you're going to say, think about how she will probably respond and what you're going to do in the most common situations. Also, plan how you're going to physically and emotionally respond to a woman who ISN'T interested in talking to you. When you know you can handle the worst-case scenario, your confidence will sky-rocket and women will take notice.

Number 7

Use great “opener” on her

Here’s a great opening line you can go out and use RIGHT NOW to get you started. This one works especially well in bars and nightclubs, and it’s one of my personal favorites. Simply go up to a woman and say, "I'm sure that every drunk dumb-ass and his nine friends have been bothering you tonight, but I just wanted to say that I think you are fantastically beautiful… and I wanted to find out what you were like."

Here’s another great line you can use just about anywhere: "Hi, can I ask you a question… are you single?" [Her: "Why?"] "Well, I know someone that I think would really like you... and if you're single, I think you should consider having a cup of coffee with him…" (Your sly smile hints that the certain someone is YOU).

Number 6

Get her number on the road

Believe it or not, you can get a womans number at 65mph. If you see an attractive woman driving in a car next to you, smile and wave. Then hold up your cell phone and mouth the words "What's your number?" slowly. I love this one…

Number 5

Get her talking

A woman loves sharing her opinions, so why not use this to your advantage? Start the conversation by asking her opinion on something, such as saying, "Hey, my friends and I were talking, and I just want to get a female perspective from you… Do you think that men understand what women want and need?" WARNING: Once you get her talking, you might not be able to stop her!

Number 4

Get her e-mail and number

Most guys make this step way more complicated than it really is. After talking for a minute or two, just say, "Well, it was nice meeting you, I'm going to get back to shopping/my friends/work/whatever." Turn away and take a few steps… then look back at her and say, "Hey, do you have an email? Great, give it to me," then take out your pen and hand it to her. As she's writing her e-mail address, say, "And put your number down there too."

Number 3

Get a female-centric hobby

Another way to meet woman is easily is to take dance lessons… or start teaching something you're an expert on. And if you're with a friend, you can always fall back on the age-old standby where you have your friend approach her for you and build you up to be the man of her dreams.

Number 2

Handle objections

If she says "No, I don’t have e-mail," you say, "Well, do you have ELECTRICITY? OK, you can give me your number then, but it's so hard to reach people these days." And if she objects to giving you her number, no worries… just tease her with "You're going to be OK, just write it down. It's only an e-mail address (or phone number), silly."

Number 1

Get her to start conversations with YOU

There's nothing better than getting a woman to be the one to initiate contact FIRST… and fortunately there are a lot of ways you can get this done. One of my favorite ways is to walk by and say something to a friend within earshot of her, something so provocative that she can't RESIST responding to it… for example you could say "I think that secretly ALL women do it…" Few women will be able to resist coming over asking what you’re talking about.

go get her

The possibilities are endless. Use your imagination, and you can figure out all sorts of ways to bring new, attractive women into your life -- any time, anywhere.

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